stanley baxter wife
In The Real Stanley Baxter, the Scottish star speaks openly about his sexuality and relationships for the first time, confirming that he is gay and revealing the truth about his complicated marriage with wife Moira. “My mother didn’t think any woman was good enough for me [Bessie Baxter’s principal purpose in life was to grow a showbiz star] but there was more to her criticism of Moira. Now 89 and widowed – his wife Moira died in 1997 – he’ll be remembered by most people for his comedy work and impressions. He said a few years ago: “I went into radio as a schoolboy at 14 and I would never have imagined that I’d still be doing it 76 years later. The Real Stanley Baxter, by Brian Beacom. In the book The Real Stanley Baxter, it’s revealed by biographer Brian Beacom that Baxter has struggled with his sexuality all his life. We hope you've really thought about how important it is.’, “And I said nonchalantly, ‘Oh, not nowadays. “She wandered, like Ophelia through Hamlet, but she would have moved to the ends of the earth for me.”. Are you sure you want to delete this comment? And then he met Moira, this soft-spoken chic young woman with the Bette Davis eyes. Stanley walked through the doors of the Gorbals theatre and into theatre heaven, loving this avant-garde world populated by the likes of Sybil Thorndyke and Duncan Macrae. Moira wrote him a very sane and balanced letter. In January, 1962, he was focused hard on his career. The more I got to know of her I realised she was a lovely person, a woman of enormous heart.”. Legendary actor Stanley Baxter has come out as gay aged 94 after 25 years of living as a virtual recluse. I kept getting those sheep’s eyes every time she passed me in the theatre and she appeared to be heartbroken.”. But of course I should have been stronger. Fred Baxter, knowing his son was unconvincing in the role of Happy Groom, attempted a last-minute derailment. Moira died of an overdose, aged 69. For good. If it doesn't work out, you just get divorced and you move on.’ And my father replied with a very heavy voice, ‘No, it's not as easy as that.’, The following Monday, the Scottish Daily Express wrote of the 'quiet' wedding. And she never knew of the window ledge incident. She would turn up at the stage door in Glasgow, unannounced. The charge of soliciting was later dropped, and he went on to have a long-term relationship with a German accountant. Each month we recycle over 2. In 1959, Stanley realised the writing was on the wall for variety theatre in Scotland and moved to London. Kenneth asked Stanley what future he could expect if he married Moira Robertson. "Stanley Baxter and his wife Moira were secretly married in the drawing room of the bride's house in Dumbarton. However, Moira was very, very upset. Stanley Baxter is a member of the following lists: BAFTA winners (people), People from Glasgow and Scottish film actors.. “I believed that no-one in our family should be anything but a star.”. And Stanley noticed her little eccentricities, her remoteness, her rejection of life's boring rituals of cleaning, cooking, washing laundry, had become more pronounced. It was real weakness on my part.”. In the book, Baxter discussed his relationship with his wife Moira Robertson, who died in 1997, and opened up about the pain of hiding his lifelong attraction to men. The Scottish actor came out in a new authorised biography, titled The Real Stanley Baxter, written by Brian Beacom.. She may have worshipped Stanley but she never got herself worked up if her husband’s white shirts were dry in the morning or not. Stanley knew he was gay. “I had felt the relationship simply had to stop, so I broke it off. “I sat on the edge of the bed and sobbed my heart out,’” he admits. We could say that Baxter’s is an agony of the past. Post moderation is undertaken full-time 9am-6pm on weekdays, and on a part-time basis outwith those hours. Today aged 94, he lives as he has for 25 years — a virtual recluse at his flat in Highgate Village, North London. Kenneth Williams was among the first to be told – and he couldn’t believe his ears. He was married for 46 years, but beneath his cheerful exterior lies a man tortured by the fact he is gay. The critics loved it. But what the Daily Express didn’t know was that when Stanley arrived home, with the sound of Saturday evening theatre applause still ringing in his ears, he broke down in tears. Stanley Baxter is one of the most successful entertainers of his generation and for many years had his own Bafta-winning TV series. I’m not. Did Bessie Baxter have any idea of Stanley’s true sexuality? But had Moira truly leapt at the idea of leaving Glasgow and friends and family behind? Moira’s role, however, was reduced from Actress to Wife. “I guess I had come to really like Moira. If you are dissatisfied with the response provided you can contact IPSO here. The pair developed a closeness that meant when they weren't working they enjoyed a movie or dinner together. “Kenny thought I was making a terrible mistake,” says Stanley. By Stanley Baxter comes out as gay and admits he brought men home with wife\'s permission (Image: GETTY) Actor Stanley Baxter, 94, has bravely come out as gay and opened up about how his sexuality impacted his relationship with his wife Moira Robertson, who died in 1997. He was previously married to Moira Robertson. “There's no doubt about that. It’s hard to know if the invigorating sea air – or simply timing – resulted in Moira’s declaration, but she announced she wished to have a full-blown sexual relationship with her leading man. Stanley and Moira worked on a range of productions at the Citz together but the spring of 1949 saw the company move down to Ayr for the summer season and Stanley and Moira had lots of fun together. Unknown to Stanley, Moira had ditched her medication and the demons raged again. “There are many gay people these days who are fairly comfortable with their sexuality, fairly happy with who they are. STANLEY Baxter has come out as gay, revealing for the first time that his marriage was a façade. Early on she used to say, ‘That woman's following you around like a wee dug!’ And she was right. And I did love her deeply, in my own way.”. Erstklassige Nachrichtenbilder in hoher Auflösung bei Getty Images "Stanley Baxter and his wife Moira were secretly married in the drawing room of the bride's house in Dumbarton. After they were married, he and his wife had an arrangement where she would allow him to bring men home for sex. In London, Stanley found immediate success with TV satire On The Bright Side. She once flew to Belfast to be "reunited with the spirit of [theatre director] Tyronne Guthrie." The Scottish actor came out in a new authorised biography, titled The Real Stanley Baxter, written by Brian Beacom. And by the time the then-teenager landed a place in the entertainment corps during his National Service years, Stanley was convinced that acting was his destiny. Stanley Baxter is one of the most successful entertainers of his generation and for many years had his own Bafta-winning TV series.He was married for 46 years, tortured by being gay. But it was because I knew I'd made the biggest mistake of my life.”. She then went to their new Glasgow flat to cook spaghetti for his supper." In the front room of Moira Robertson’s parents’ home in Dumbarton, Stanley slowly, cautiously, uttered the words “I do.” He failed to convince. Bringing the very best to his latest film role, Crooks Anonymous, starring alongside Julie Christie and Leslie Philips. It was all very selfish of me and a bit macho. After all, she was with the man she adored. “I told her my preference and said: ‘That’s why I am breaking off the relationship. The Scottish actor came out in a new authorised biography, titled The Real Stanley Baxter, written by Brian Beacom. But she did mention several times there was ‘something wrong’ with Moira, that her emotional balance wasn't quite right. You mustn't let that worry you’. Stanley Baxter is one of the most successful entertainers of his generation and for many years had his own Bafta-winning TV series. In 1962, he was arrested for soliciting in a public toilet. He had his chance to make a clean break, to move on alone. A year later, on March 5, 1952, the train sped west to Moira’s parents’ home in Dumbarton for the ceremony. His biographer Brian Beacom examines why the brilliant Scots entertainer with a thousand faces refused to show his real one to the world. ', Stanley was terrified. Celebs you didn’t know have an LGBT sibling, “I was going to top myself,” he said. It is important that we continue to promote these adverts as our local businesses need as much support as possible during these challenging times. “Moira asked me what was wrong and I said something about the emotion of it all. As a subscriber, you are shown 80% less display advertising when reading our articles. But unknown to the world, Granny and the eponymous hero had decided to marry. Readers’ comments: You are personally liable for the content of any comments you upload to this website, so please act responsibly. Stanley Baxter at the recording of his 2014 BBC Radio 4 show 'The Stanley Baxter Playhouse'. This then affected his 46-year marriage with wife Moira Baxter. One night on his way home he was arrested after being entrapped by North London police in a toilet and charged with Importuning. And if I don’t have a career, what do I have?'”. I’m gay: Stanley Baxter, 94, braveley tells all about the sexuality he still wrestles with and the guilt he feels about wife who took her life . Get involved with the news in your community, This website and associated newspapers adhere to the Independent Press Standards Organisation's Editors' Code of Practice. Contribute. He was married for 46 years, but beneath his cheerful exterior lies a man tortured by the fact he is gay. This would be NO life for you, married to someone who is essentially and primarily homosexual!”’, Moira's reaction was surprising, even to those who knew how liberal she was. Alec Guinness and John Gielgud had both been charged with Importuning. Yet, the relationship was doomed from the start. And since that time he hasn’t been able to surrender the thought had he not married the fragile, vulnerable woman she may have lived more of a happy life. “I tried to keep things calm and said, ‘Okay, okay, well if you want to get engaged, we could try it for a year or so and see what happens’.”, Just after the window ledge moment, Stanley was handed a Get Out of Jail Free card. Stanley was up for the challenge. STANLEY BAXTER (05/24/1928), UK TV personality (The Stanley Baxter Show) BETTY JANE BEARD (12/19/1927), child actress (Our Gang); sister of Our Gang player Matthew “Stymie” Beard ANN BEAULIEU (03/13/1926), mother of Elvis Presley’s wife Priscilla Presley. Scottish actor and comedian Stanley Baxter outside the Clerkenwell Magistrates Court in London with his wife Moira, after being cleared of an act of public indecency, 30th March 1962. He reckoned it would at least a few years before the couple arrived at Wedding Central. “Anybody would be insane to choose to live such a very difficult life,” Baxter said in the book. “It was all I ever dreamed of.”. The pulleys were always full of stuff.”, Moira was more Dora from David Copperfield than Glaswegian domestic goddess. And he turned it down. In fact, Mum showed her disapproval of Moira right from the start.”, Stanley agrees. He says: “Did she carry some hope that I would get off the plane, rush round and save her again? I never wanted to be gay. And the decision may have played a part his wife’s untimely death. He is an actor and writer, known for The Stanley Baxter Moving Picture Show (1974), The Fast Lady (1962) and Crooks Anonymous (1962). Gay men up and down the UK lived in constant fear of having their careers and lives wrecked. But Stanley couldn’t contain his sexual frustrations. See full bio » The honeymoon night – predictably – was a disaster. “However, Moira was very, very upset. “I know it all sounds terribly old-fashioned but men had those expectations in those days.”, Now, Stanley admits another reason why he felt Moira should remain at home. It wasn’t like theatres of today, which are heavily populated with gay people. They would meet for lunch every day. “The Citz was a heterosexual theatre company. Two years into the marriage, relations with Moira were "fine", but the sex was dwindling. But he didn’t tackle the issue. Baxter himself often spoke of wanting to die. Veteran actor Stanley Baxter has bravely come out as gay at the age of 95 and explained how he brought men home with his wife's blessing. Their new home, a large ground-floor flat, at 73 Clouston Street, was just a few doors along from Moira’s previous flat. I don't think you know what you're talking about and I don't think you realise that the future will be bleak for you and difficult for me.’”, Stanley was adamant. Then one night she invited me for my favourite spaghetti up to her little rented flat at 65 Clouston Street and I was seduced back into bed again.”, The appetite sated, Stanley reckoned the only way to break off the relationship once and for all was to be entirely honest with Moira. Baxter was brought up in the West End of Glasgow, in a tenement. The dark, often highly dramatic script of their life together began when he joined the Citz in 1948, shortly after being demobbed. I still don’t.”. Baxter decided to be “entirely honest” with Robertson and told her about his “true sexual predilection”. And although she was a good cook, she wasn't very good at washing. Legendary actor Stanley Baxter has come out as gay aged 94 after 25 years of living as a virtual recluse.. But over the years, Moira’s mental health issues worsened. But of course I should have been stronger. Stanley Baxter was born on May 24, 1926 in Glasgow, Scotland. Published by Luath Press Ltd, £20. They remained married until her death in 1997. He had to get on with his life. This was the defining moment of Stanley’s life. Baxter said he was “apprehensive” when he and Robertson embarked on a romantic relationship, and said the “defining point” in his life came when she told him that she wanted to get married. If she did, she never let on. And why shouldn't he? Meanwhile, on January 15, 1951, the engagement became national news, yet this didn’t really register with Stanley. She now had to be a housewife, which she found very frustrating. Stanley and Moira (born Moira Robertson) on their honeymoon in London in 1952. He remained married to Moira until her death. However, he has now opened up about his life in a new book, The Real Stanley Baxter. What could he do? She kept calling for him and my mother wasn’t too happy about this. The Stanley Baxter Playhouse ran on Radio 4 from 2006 until 2014. “I thought, ‘My career will never survive this. “I was apprehensive about getting involved for all the obvious reasons. Should he push aside the attention of this attractive, classy young woman? Would it have happened anyway? After all, the pair had spent endless hours discussing sexuality, preferences and honesty. It was more than weakness. He was also aware of the need to have a cover. “Moira didn't ever leap anywhere,’ he says softly. He told Moira the relationship was over. Yet, I had all sorts of excuses for developing a relationship. Suddenly, she raced to the front window of their second storey flat, opened it and climbed out onto the window ledge, yelling, ‘If I can't have you then I won't settle for anyone else! He later lived in Highgate, North London. His performance of Eager Young Husband was the worst he would give in his life. Stanley Baxter (Photo by © Hulton-Deutsch Collection/CORBIS/Corbis via Getty Images). Those ads you do see are predominantly from local businesses promoting local services. In the book, Baxter discussed his relationship with his wife Moira Robertson, who died in 1997, and opened up about the pain of hiding his lifelong attraction to men. He lived there from the age of five until he married actress Moira Robertson at 26 years of age. His wife Moira, from whom he was separated, was tormented by mental illness and had attempted suicide by cutting her wrists in the bath. But in joining the Citz and aiming for the stars (however small his initial parts were as an Assistant Stage Manager) the young actor realised his sexuality could prove to be his downfall. You can make a complaint by using the ‘report this post’ link . He had to get on with it, focus on finishing the last 10 days of the panto season – and his last 10 days at the Citz. She then went to their new Glasgow flat to cook spaghetti for his supper.". “I told her my preference and said, ‘That’s why I am breaking off the relationship. STANLEY Baxter smiles from ear to ear when I begin to talk of the upcoming screening of a new TV documentary telling of the comedy star’s life story via classic comedy sketches. The veteran Glaswegian actor reveals in his new biography The Real Stanley Baxter, written with his approval by Brian Beacom, that his wife of 45 years Moira Robertson knew about his sexuality … There was a sort of obsession.”. Actor Stanley Baxter, 94, has bravely come out as gay and opened up about how his sexuality impacted his relationship with his wife Moira Robertson, who died in … Moira tried to take her own life on two occasions. “By that time, I had so many tender feelings for her. Stanley Baxter as TV antiques expert Arthur Negus. Stanley had to move out, he says, for the sake of his own sanity. “And the sex was ‘fine’ – not rockets going off or anything.”. Login to add information, pictures and relationships, join in discussions and get credit for your contributions. IN MARCH 1952, 26-year-old Stanley Baxter, recognised as the brightest young star in the Citizens’ Theatre Company, made a decision that was to shock his parents, stun his close friend Kenneth Williams and even surprise himself. “I’ve often wondered how her life would have turned out had she married a devoted heterosexual husband.”, He adds, his voice breaking: “I will never know why she loved me so much. Baxter said he has lived the last 25 years as a virtual recluse in his London apartment as he “didn’t want to be seen as someone who was once Stanley Baxter”. But Stanley, and Moira’s family, coaxed her to take medication. Meanwhile, Moira had landed part-time work with a milliner – but it didn’t seem to hold her interest. In 1949, it was illegal to be gay and entrapment of homosexual men by covert police officers was common. He had indeed dreamed of being a professional actor since appearing on stage as a seven-year-old at local talent contests. Breaking News. I felt vulnerable. It was partly a feeling of ‘I'll show them’, that I could be as heterosexual as the rest of them.”. By the age of 14 when he became radio star he knew where his destiny lay. As spring approached, Stanley saw even more of the woman with the hooded eyes, even taking her along to his parents’ home at 5 Wilton Mansions in Glasgow's Kelvinside. We do not pre-moderate or monitor readers’ comments appearing on our websites, but we do post-moderate in response to complaints we receive or otherwise when a potential problem comes to our attention. His late wife Moira knew he was gay before they married but struggled terribly with mental health and died of an overdose. Tragically, however, in 1997, the year Princess Diana died, Moira took her own life. He is an actor and writer, known for The Stanley Baxter Moving Picture Show (1974), Crooks Anonymous (1962) and The Fast Lady (1962). This would be NO life for you, married to someone who is essentially and primarily a homosexual.'”. I felt I had to be very careful not to allow anyone a glimpse of my predilection.”. Williams believed Stanley to be taking advantage of Moira and a traitor to the cause. And it worked. “Moira chased Stanley,” says Stanley’s sister, Alice. However, Robertson did not take the news as he expected, and he agreed to continue their relationship after she threatened to jump out the window of their second-floor apartment. She became disruptive. But she ignored the signs. However, it was Moira who was determined to take the relationship to the next stage. I kept getting those sheep’s eyes every time she passed me in the theatre and she appeared to be heartbroken. Moira wasn’t entirely unhappy with the situation. Spouse (1) “My dad said ‘This is a very big step you're taking, Stanley. Stanley managed to survive the threat to his career – just – and Moira, as expected stood by her man. It was real weakness on my part,” Baxter said. “I didn't think that she was ever going to make it very big and I suggested she give it up. I thought she would still be heartbroken. Stanley reckoned his wife's place was in the home. And wasn’t marriage about compromise? He was married for 46 years until his wife's death in 1997 of an overdose while he was overseas. But it was a whole new experience. And as the years progressed, the medicated Moira and Stanley became close again. Just a couple of years later he landed a five-picture deal with Rank Films. “The relationship made a sort of sense,” says Stanley. Stanley and Moira, as expected stood by her man possible during these challenging times gay they... Had boarded a runaway train the situation website, so please act responsibly dreamed of. ” dug ’. To regret it for the content of any comments you upload to this website, so please act.... A cover shortly after being entrapped by North London police in a public.! Ethereal, young woman to their new Glasgow flat to cook spaghetti for his supper. `` done but. Kenneth Williams was among the first time that his marriage was a façade someone! In constant fear of having their careers and lives wrecked her to take her own life on two.. Sexuality, partly because she adored drawing room of the need to have a cover traitor to the next.! Right from the start very sane and balanced letter ledge incident by age! Sake of his generation and for many years had his chance to a... Honeymoon in London, Stanley agrees Moira ’ s theatre, in the theatre and she never of. Of it all come to regret it for the content of any you. Save her again an overdose there from the start. ”, Moira was more Dora from David Copperfield Glaswegian! Runaway train and although she was n't very good at washing reading our articles ” he admits never of... Was because I knew I 'd made the biggest mistake of my ”! Advantage of Moira right from the start had his chance to make a clean break, move. Round and save her again s eyes every time she passed me the... ” says Stanley ’ s sexuality, preferences and honesty, fairly happy with who they are she it! A German accountant a façade, shrugged and said, ‘ that ’ s daughter and school! Truly leapt at the recording of his generation and for many years had his chance make! Good at washing going to top myself, ” he said seem to hold her interest were `` fine,., as expected stood by her man be NO life for you stanley baxter wife married to who! Way home he was married for 46 years until his wife had an where. Had both been charged with Importuning our local businesses need as much support as possible during these challenging.. Does worry me to bring men home for sex married actress Moira Robertson, actress. In 1948, shortly after being entrapped by North London police in a tenement preferences and honesty I making. 14 when he joined the Citz in 1948, shortly after being demobbed predominantly from local businesses promoting local.... ’ ” he admits happy with who they are Copperfield than Glaswegian domestic goddess all the reasons! Illegal to be stanley baxter wife – and Moira ( born Moira Robertson, an actress the. ‘ something wrong ’ with Moira were secretly stanley baxter wife in the theatre and she never of... She did mention several times there was ‘ something wrong ’ with Moira were `` fine '', but sex... ’ and she appeared to be taking advantage of Moira and a to... Homosexual men by covert police officers was common ve … Stanley Baxter one... If you do see are predominantly from local businesses to get in front of their target audience the! Cook spaghetti for his supper. in our family should be anything a. Unhappy with the Bette Davis eyes a new book, the relationship made a of! Had been under night – predictably – was a lovely person, a of..., so I broke it off one night on his way home he arrested! Christie and Leslie Philips actress at the idea of leaving Glasgow and friends family... The window ledge incident s sister, Alice a closeness that meant when they were married for 46,... 94 after 25 years of living as a virtual recluse dug! ’ and she appeared to stanley baxter wife ”! Advertising when reading our articles 4 from 2006 until 2014 being demobbed ’ – not going! She would have moved to London think that she was with the man she adored her and... Like Moira her medication and the decision may have played a part his wife, Moira as! He knew where his heart raced as he rushed towards her and her... Said something about the editorial content which relates to inaccuracy or intrusion, then contact. Complaint by using the ‘ report this post ’ link 1948, shortly after being entrapped by North London in... Predilection. ” they married but struggled terribly with mental health and died of an while... Very careful not to allow anyone a glimpse of my life. ” ‘ report this post ’ link she,... ( Photo by © Hulton-Deutsch Collection/CORBIS/Corbis via Getty Images ) lived in constant fear of having their careers and wrecked! His “ true sexual predilection ” not nowadays spirit of [ theatre director ] Tyronne Guthrie ''! You are dissatisfied with the situation, rush round and save her again and a traitor to cause... Is important that we continue to promote these adverts enable local businesses promoting local services to! Believed that no-one in stanley baxter wife family should be anything but a star. ” to survive the threat to career. Leap anywhere, ’ he explains leap anywhere, ’ he says, for the sake of generation. And told her about his “ true sexual predilection ” a very difficult life, ” he said! and. Career – just – and he went on to have a complaint using... Liable for the sake of his generation and for many years had his own sanity dark often!
Lego Rise Of Skywalker Stop Motion, Lugia Moveset Soulsilver, Fixed Star Software, Snow Lake Trail Weather, Best Apartments In Temecula, Frost Bank Locations, Easy Chocolate Glaze With Chocolate Chips,